We've all experienced that awkward moment when we unwrap a gift that just doesn't resonate. Often, it's accompanied by the dreaded line: I saw this and thought of you! To spare you from such cringe-worthy moments, let's address the pressing question: what does it take to be a thoughtful gift giver?
Here's the reality: my history with gift giving hasn't always been stellar. I've spent countless late nights searching online for the perfect present, visiting multiple stores to find the right wrapping materials, and even gathering wildflowers to enhance the presentation.
All that hard work only to receive a lukewarm reaction? Disheartening. Sometimes, I just want to retreat into my stash of wrapping supplies and hibernate. Santa, I suspect I might just belong on the naughty list.
Meet the Gift-Giving Specialist
As the holidays approach, it's likely you're starting to think about the gifts you need to buy. The intention behind gifting—thoughtfulness and care—is admirable, but it can sometimes feel overwhelming and burdensome.
'Tis the season for thoughtful gifts that won't end up collecting dust… until now.
We had a chat with Eden Delaune, the visionary behind Bisette, a luxury gift concierge service known for its personalized and creative presents. Serving a wide clientele from businesses to personal celebrations, she shared invaluable insights on what constitutes a great gift, tips for successful gifting, and what to avoid as a bad gift giver. Plus, stay tuned for her gifting ideas for the upcoming season!
A Houston native, Eden began her journey in marketing and events at Ralph Lauren in New York. She later managed special projects and events for Bronson van Wyck. Since 2017, she has focused on entrepreneurial lifestyle endeavors for various clients, including Netflix. With a passion for storytelling, she believes that the unique traits of individuals or brands elevate a gift. Eden enjoys entertaining, design, food, and antiques, and lives in Texas with her husband, James, and their daughter, Jules.
Expert Tips for Thoughtful Gift Giving
When should we start thinking about gifts?
Top gift givers plan ahead throughout the year. Inspiration often strikes at unexpected times—capitalize on those moments by noting them down! At Bisette, we're continuously shopping for clients. With current shipping times, it's wise to start early. Ideally, aim for 4-6 weeks in advance, especially for custom orders, as they often require more time.
Procrastinating limits your options. Last-minute shopping means you're confined to what's available locally, which often lacks thoughtfulness and meaning.
What are your top gifting suggestions?
- Stock up on hostess gifts to be prepared for unexpected invites. We keep a collection of brass ice cream scoops, paired with a local pint for a delightful touch.
- If your gift is delayed, provide a themed representation for the recipient to open, rather than just a photo. For example, if a custom golf driver is late, include a luxe leather golf head cover for them to unwrap.
- We love a consistent theme at Bisette. A thank-you gift from a weekend getaway? Choose something that reflects the region or a collection of items that match a colleague's brand colors.
- A book always makes a great choice! Don't forget to add a stylish leather bookmark that will be cherished long after the book is read.
- Size matters. A regular bottle of rosé is fine for the beach, but a magnum or jeroboam makes it feel extra special and sets the tone for celebration.
- When gifting for weddings, stick to the registry—always! Couples select items for a reason. If something's out of stock, find a cohesive piece that aligns with their style, like an additional serving dish in their chosen pattern.
- For frequent recipients, consider starting a collection. This approach gives you year-round gifting opportunities and creates a meaningful array of treasures that can evolve into heirlooms.
- Don't overlook the presentation! It's an essential part of the gifting experience. Gather beautiful wrapping papers and ribbons throughout the year to match the occasion and recipient's personality.
What's your stance on gift cards?
Gift cards can be acceptable if paired with something additional to elevate the gift. For example, a wooden brasserie board alongside a gift certificate to a cheese shop enhances the overall experience. A spa gift card may feel routine, but adding a set of seasonal nail polish colors can refresh the idea.
What about food gifts?
My favorite gifts in the food and drink category are all about introducing something new. A bottle of wine from an undiscovered vineyard in Napa is far more intriguing than common local selections. You can ship cookies from a bakery you visited in Charleston through Goldbelly, allowing you to share your personal story about the treat. This makes the gift feel personal and unique. Plus, caviar can remain fresh in the fridge for up to six weeks, making it a fantastic choice!
What's the best way to personalize a gift?
Personalization shows that you truly considered the recipient and your relationship. Many brands now offer customization options. Instead of standard initials, think of a fun nickname or something cheeky that reminds you of them. Explore unconventional personalization spots, like the inside flap of a jacket for a sweet note just for them.
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